“All night long on my bed I longed for my lover. I longed for him but he never appeared. “I will arise and look all around throughout the town, and throughout the streets and squares; I will search for my beloved.” I searched for him but I did not find him. The night watchmen found me—the ones who guard the city walls. “Have you seen my beloved?” Scarcely had I passed them by when I found my beloved! I held onto him tightly and would not let him go until I brought him to my mother’s house, to the bedroom chamber of the one who conceived me. I admonish you, O maidens of Jerusalem, by the gazelles and by the young does of the open fields: “Do not awaken or arouse love until it pleases!’” Song of Solomon 3:1-5 NET
As a brief overview, “Song of Solomon” is a
beautifully woven love story that centers around two distinctly different
individuals: a wealthy, strikingly handsome man portrayed in the text as
altogether lovely, and a humble, plain-looking young girl, emblematic of
innocence and resilience. He embodies the persona of a sophisticated city man,
adorned with riches and stature, while she represents the essence of a country
girl—simple, earnest, and often overlooked. Her life tells the story of someone
who has faced hardships, was raised in a family that struggles to make ends meet, and is living in the shadows of society’s gaze.
This dramatic contrast between them is deeply symbolic and resonates profoundly with me. The man is a magnificent reflection of our Bridegroom, the Lord Jesus Christ, the Son of God. We can see ourselves much like that unassuming girl—one who has been enveloped in grace and welcomed into the warmth of the New Testament Church. She is a powerful illustration, a type and shadow of someone who may not meet the world’s beauty standards—she is unrefined, modest, yet carries an inner strength that shines through her simplicity.
You might ask, “Did a wealthy, influential man truly
fall in love with someone like her?” The answer is undoubtedly yes! This
compelling love story is woven into the very fabric of “Song of
Solomon,” capturing the essence of divine grace and unconditional love
from our almighty God. I believe this man is Solomon, which is precisely why
the work is called the “Song of Solomon.”
One beautiful day, Solomon rode through the sun-drenched
valleys, surrounded by the vibrant colors of blooming vineyards, and saw that young lady in the distance. She was a picture of earnest toil,
with her sunburned skin telling tales of labor under the sun’s hot glow.
Her hair was disheveled, and her clothes worn, but her spirit was unwavering.
She was diligently tending to her family’s vineyards, unaware that her life was
about to change forever. In that fleeting moment, as their eyes met across the
expanse, it was love at first sight—a powerful connection that transcended
their worlds.
Can you remember the moment when you first realized that
Jesus loved you with a depth so profound that He gave His life for your
salvation? That pivotal day when you felt the weight of His grace washing over
you? It was a sacred moment, brimming with hope, love, and the promise
of redemption, forever etched in your heart!
The book artfully explores a love story that unfolds through captivating cycles of intimacy and separation. The two main characters are
irresistibly drawn to each other, sharing cherished moments filled with
laughter, vulnerable conversations, and the warmth of mutual understanding.
Whether they’re enjoying dinners that linger long into the night or spontaneous
adventures that spark joy, these instances forge a deep emotional connection
that feels almost unbreakable.
However, just as their bond seems to flourish, the
unpredictability of life intervenes, causing them to drift apart. The reasons
for their separation are rich and complex. She often wrestles
with an internal dialogue of guilt and self-doubt, pondering whether her choices have inadvertently led to this distance. Meanwhile, He grapples with
the belief that stepping back from their union might be essential for her
personal growth, enabling them to gain clarity and strength in their relationship.
His demanding career, with its late nights and unforeseen obligations,
frequently pulls him away, making the world outside their love reality feel all
too real.
This pattern—a rhythmic dance of closeness and
separation—creates a poignant emotional landscape, filled with longing and
hope.
In a broader sense, this cycle resonates all too deeply with
the spiritual journey many people undertake in their Christian lives. You may agree or disagree with this perspective, but it reflects an
undeniable truth for many. There are moments when we sense an overwhelming
closeness to Jesus, where His presence envelops us like a warm embrace, filling
our spirit with peace, joy, and a sense of purpose. Yet, during challenging
times—marked by doubt, struggle, and introspection—we can sometimes sense a
withdrawal, as if He has stepped just beyond our reach, leaving us to navigate
the tumult of our feelings alone.
If you haven’t encountered this ebb and flow in your own
spiritual path, it may be worth honestly delving into the question for
yourself; you could uncover either a hesitance to face the truth about your
experiences with Jesus, or perhaps a spiritual struggle that clouds your
perception of the profound dynamics of closeness and separation in your faith journey.
We now find ourselves immersed in chapter three, verses one
through five, where we encounter a decisive moment of longing and separation.
The passage begins with a striking declaration: “All night long on my bed
I longed for my lover.” Some commentators suggest this scene might merely
be a dream; however, the narrative does not indicate any such interpretation.
Instead, it vividly portrays a deep longing: “All night long on my bed.”
One can easily envision the darkness surrounding her as she suddenly awakens,
startled and scanning her surroundings, her heart racing at the thought that
her beloved might still be with her. Having grown accustomed to His gentle,
comforting presence, His absence strikes a deep chord within her, intensifying
her yearning.
“I longed for my lover.” The Hebrew verb used here is rooted
in the ‘piel’ form, which conveys not just desire but an all-consuming pursuit,
characterized by earnestness and emotional intensity. It evokes an image of
passionate searching, a heartfelt quest for connection. This Woman, symbolizing
the Church in its most ideal state, embarks on an earnest journey to find her
beloved. She pours all her strength and utmost fervor into her search,
yet she finds herself in the painful silence of unfulfilled longing.
I have encountered many believers who struggle with the lack of God’s presence in their lives. It is not a question of the
authenticity of their faith, but rather a lack of engagement in the spiritual
disciplines that nurture their relationship with Him—fellowship, prayer, and
meditation in God’s Word. For these individuals, days can feel monotonous,
filled with pleas for blessings without a clear awareness that their prayers
are even being heard. In contrast, this young Woman recognizes that her beloved
has purposely distanced Himself.
She anguishes, “All night long I sought out my lover,” yet
her efforts yield no fruit. This mirrors the plight of King Saul, who,
following his disobedience to God, desperately searched for divine guidance but
was met with a soul-crushing silence. Similarly, Job, despite his steadfast
integrity and unwavering faith amid suffering, cried out in grief, yearning for
God’s presence, feeling utterly forsaken. Yet Job did not surrender to despair;
he remained steadfast in his pursuit, ultimately receiving an inspiring reply
from God that emerged from the midst of a whirlwind.
As I ponder my spiritual journey, do I wrestle with the depth of my longing for Jesus? Am I to grieve His absence when His presence seems distant? Do I gather in worship without experiencing the vibrant joy of His Spirit? I would say yes to all of these.
The Shulamite girl declares, “I longed for Him, but He never
appeared,” which embodies the universal struggle of countless believers during the
spiritual dry spells we encounter. Some interpretations suggest the Woman is at
fault for this separation, implying that she must have done or said something
to drive Him away. However, I perceive her yearning as undeserving of blame;
she merely awakens—a solitary figure in a vast, quiet room—and finds her
beloved absent.
This remarkable scene exemplifies the times
when Jesus chooses to withdraw from us. Sometimes, His presence envelops us,
sweet and palpable, infusing our souls with warmth and joy, while at other
times, we experience a profound absence that leaves us yearning. Yet I hold
firmly to the assurance that He remains ever-present. The hymn by E.J.
Rollings, “Standing Somewhere in the Shadows,” poignantly captures this truth.
The opening line of the chorus states, “Standing somewhere in the shadows, you’ll
find Jesus; He’s the Friend who always cares and understands.”
I cherish the promise from Jesus: “I will never leave you
nor forsake you.” However, when I feel estranged from His closeness,
I grapple with why the Lord permits this separation. The answer
lies in the profound lesson that our experience of His presence transcends
fleeting emotions; it’s not about our feelings but faith. He teaches us
that our connection with Him does not solely hinge on the sweetness of the
moment, but stands firm even in seasons of silence and distance. He remains God, whether our prayers are met with bounteous answers or seem to bounce against an
unseen glass barrier in heaven. His essence does not sway; He is the same in moments when
the Scriptures blaze like jewels before our eyes, and when we struggle with a bible passage over days, weeks, or even years.
I believe He deliberately withdraws at times to provoke our
pursuit of Him, to cultivate humility deep within our hearts. Proverbs 25:2
eloquently states, “It is the glory of God to conceal things, but the glory of
kings is to search things out.” This divine concealment serves a higher
purpose: to reveal the truth about ourselves and our inherent dependency in
trusting in Him, by standing in faith that His promises are true and that He
loves us regardless of whether we sense His presence or not, He is always with us, and
is sometimes in the shadows. It unveils the reality that we cannot navigate
this life without Him, stirring within us a fervent desire to seek Him with all
our hearts and nurturing our capacity to love Him and others in the
profound ways we are called.
I deeply admire this young lady; she
exemplifies an extraordinary spirit of determination and faith that many of us
often struggle to embody. When she proclaims, “I will arise,” it captures her
refusal to be ensnared by the comforts of inertia. While others might succumb
to the temptation of staying in bed, cocooned in lethargy and doubt, she stands
resolute. Though her beloved is absent, she cherishes His presence within her
heart and is committed to pursuing Him fervently, refusing to abandon the
hope of His return. Her tenacity resonates as a heartfelt plea, much like us
when we need the Lord to be present in our lives, like so many hymns that have
been written in the past: ‘O Lord, revive us.’ ‘O Lord, would You pass by us once again,
allowing Your gentle grace to wash over us.’ ‘O Lord, I need You every hour; do
not pass me by, dear Savior.’
With an unwavering resolve, she declares, “I will arise and
look all around throughout the town, and throughout the streets and squares; I
will search for my beloved.” Her quest is not a mere stroll but a passionate
journey searching through the vibrant hustle and bustle of the broad streets, where
she actively longs for the one her soul deeply adores. The Hebrew term for
“seek” is an intensified verb, ‘piel,’ laden with urgency and longing; it
conveys not just a search, but a heartfelt desperation, as if she is begging
for His presence. He is indispensable to her existence; she needs Him more than
life itself, surpassing all other desires.
This sentiment echoes in the words of the Apostle Paul, who
boldly stated in Philippians 1:21, “For to me, living is Christ and dying is
gain.” This prompts a moment of introspection: Are we truly at peace with going a
day devoid of the sweet communion with Jesus that our spirit longs for? Jesus
underscores the significance of this connection in John 15:5, declaring, “I am
the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him bears much
fruit; for apart from me, you can do nothing.” Abiding in Jesus is the essence
of a fruitful life; through this profound and loving relationship, we discover sweetness, strength, and an intricate interconnection with God.
As she earnestly exclaims, “I will search for my beloved...
I searched for him, but I did not find him,” we witness the remarkable
testament of this young girl. Her unwavering commitment shines through as she
diligently continues her pursuit of her beloved, even when He seems elusive.
This relentless searching is not a mark of defeat but a testament to her
intensified yearning for His presence—a longing that propels her forward with
unshakeable faith and hope. Her journey serves as a reminder of the
depths of love and devotion that can flourish in our relationship with Jesus,
encouraging us to seek Him relentlessly in all the corners of our lives.
“The night watchmen found me—the ones who guard the city
walls.” In her earnest search, she did not encounter her Bridegroom, but the
watchful night guards did discover her, wandering through the quiet alleys
illuminated only by the pale glow of moonlight. There exists a powerful passage
in the Song of Solomon where the night watchmen confront her, treating her with
cruelty and even beating her and inflicting pain. We will delve into that verse
later in chapter five. However, the night watchmen find her and
approach her at this point in time with a sense of concern rather than harm.
As they peer into the shadows, they observe this young lady
stepping cautiously through the night, her heart trembling with hope and
vulnerability. The risks she has taken are palpable—a striking image of the
Church courageously seeking her Savior, in stark contrast to many believers who
hesitate to step outside their comfort zones. Too often, we
term ourselves too busy or distracted to devote even a few hours to immersing
ourselves in Scripture or prioritizing sustained prayer, which would help
deepen our communion with God. Yet this young Woman stands apart; her
determination drives her onward.
Listen closely to her heartfelt question to the
night watchmen: “Have you seen my beloved?” She does not utter “King Solomon,”
nor speak of a “well-dressed prince adorned with a gleaming crown,
riding a magnificent steed.” She entirely bypasses ceremonial titles and refrains from asking, “Have you seen my Bridegroom?” Instead, with a voice
rich with longing and intimacy, she implores, “Have you seen my Beloved?” The
English Standard Version (ESV) beautifully expands this inquiry: “Have you seen
Him whom my soul loves?” To her, He is the sole object of her affection,
unrivaled and unmatched. In her plea, she offers no name to the night watchmen;
she simply desires to know, “Have you seen my Beloved?”
This passionate yearning brings to mind the moment Mary
Magdalene returned to Jesus’ tomb, her heart heavy after the disciples had
scattered in fear. Upon discovering the stone sealing the tomb had been rolled
away, “But Mary stood outside the tomb weeping. As she wept, she bent down and
looked into the tomb. And she saw two angels in white sitting where Jesus’ body
had been lying, one at the head and one at the feet. They said to her, “Woman,
why are you weeping?” Mary replied, “They have taken my Lord away, and I do not
know where they have put him!” When she said this, she turned around and
saw Jesus standing there, but she did not know it was Jesus.
Jesus said to her, “Woman, why are you weeping? Who are you
looking for?” Because she thought he was the gardener, she said to him, “Sir,
if you have carried him away, tell me where you have put him, and I will take
him.” Jesus said to her, “Mary.” She turned and said to him in Aramaic,
“Rabboni” (which means Teacher).” John 20:11-16.
I find no need to enroll in academic courses on comparative
religions or to adopt varying philosophies on beliefs or doctrines, because I
know Him, and for me, there exists no other. Through Him, all of humanity must
pursue salvation. I know Him who embodies the way, the truth, and the life.
Have you seen Him, my Beloved?
“Scarcely had I passed them by when I found my beloved!”
This statement captures a moment steeped in longing, illustrating that her
Beloved is acutely aware of her presence, much like Jesus is mindful of our paths
and struggles. He knows she is diligently searching for Him, yet He
purposefully holds back, choosing not to reveal Himself while she remains in
the company of the night watchmen. His deliberate waiting enhances the
intensity of her pursuit. When she steps away, she joyfully declares, “I
found Him whom my soul loves.” In this context, the Hebrew word for ‘found’ is
‘matsa,’ which carries deeper meanings—such as encountering unexpectedly, appearing, or descending into her life like a refreshing rain after a long
drought.
Can you reflect on a moment when you deeply felt the need
for Jesus, and He suddenly made His presence known in your life? Perhaps there
were days filled with discouragement where it seemed like the weight of the
world was pressing down, and then, in an unexpected moment, Jesus appeared,
like a warm light piercing through the fog of despair. During times of profound
loneliness, He came to offer comfort, wrapping you in His love like a soft,
warm blanket on a cold night. There were occasions of spiritual turmoil when He
uplifted your spirit and provided refuge, revealing Himself as your anchor and
strength in remarkable, incomprehensible ways. I am profoundly grateful for a
Savior who can always be found. As articulated in Matthew 7:7, “Ask
and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock, and the door will
be opened for you.” To genuinely seek Jesus requires sincerity and openness;
one must be willing to embrace the vulnerability of being found by Him.
“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
for they will be satisfied” (Matthew 5:6). This verse beautifully encapsulates
the essence of seeking the Lord; those who fervently pursue Him will find their
hearts filled with peace and fulfillment. The narrative shifts as she boldly
states, “I held onto Him tightly and would not let Him go.” This phrase
embodies a sense of urgency and desperation, invoking images of grasping onto
something precious—a fierce determination to cling to His presence that
signifies unwavering commitment. While I recognize the theological truth that
my salvation is not contingent upon my grip on Jesus but instead on His loving
embrace of me, I find immense joy in cultivating a deep, personal relationship
with Him.
Our moments of communion are beautifully rich; I have
discovered Him, and together we explore the profound depths of His love. As
expressed in Psalm 19:10, “More to be desired are they than gold, even much
fine gold; sweeter also than honey and drippings of the honeycomb.” This
elegantly articulates my passion for holding onto Him, and I am determined never to let go.
The biblical narrative includes the gripping story of Jacob:
“So Jacob was left alone. Then a man wrestled with him until daybreak. When the
man saw that he could not defeat Jacob, he struck the socket of his hip, so the
socket of Jacob’s hip was dislocated while he wrestled with him. Then the man
said, “Let me go, for the dawn is breaking.” “I will not let you go,” Jacob
replied, unless you bless me.” (Genesis
32:24-26). This scene exemplifies the beauty of wrestling with God—an
acknowledgment that sometimes our most intense struggles can lead to profound
blessings. We should cherish those sacred encounters with the Lord, relishing
His presence and making the conscious decision to hold fast to Him at all
costs.
The phrase, “Until I brought him to my mother’s house, to
the bedroom chamber of the one who conceived me,” holds rich imagery. It evokes
a sense of deep familial love and connection, bringing to mind traditions of
hospitality that honor sacred spaces. This language recalls when Abraham’s
servant sought a bride for Isaac, symbolizing the beauty of commitment and
nurturing relationships. “Then Isaac brought Rebekah into his mother Sarah’s
tent (house). He took her as his wife and loved her. So Isaac was comforted
after his mother’s death” (Genesis 24:67). Similarly, in the book of Ruth,
devotion and loyalty resonate through the relationships of Naomi, Ruth, and
Orpah. “Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law, “Listen to me! Each of you
should return to your mother’s home. May the Lord show you the same kind of
devotion that you have shown to your deceased husbands and to me.” (Ruth 1:8).
This imagery of nurturing love encapsulates the themes of weddings, marriages,
and the continuity of love across generations.
Have you ever considered extending an invitation to Jesus,
inviting Him into the intimate corners of your home and heart? Paul beautifully
expresses this in Colossians 3:16, “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly,
teaching and exhorting one another with all wisdom, singing psalms, hymns, and
spiritual songs, all with grace in your hearts to God.” By embracing the Word
of God in your home, you welcome Jesus to reign over your mind, will, emotions,
and soul. In chapter one, we saw the Bridegroom inviting her into His chambers,
where moments of profound intimacy and connection unfold. Comparatively, He
prepares a dwelling place for us in the Father’s house, beckoning us into His
chambers with open arms. She longs, “I have been to your chambers;
now I want to invite you to the chambers at my house.” This invitation is not
merely a gesture; it represents a heartfelt desire to share sacred experiences
and forge deeper connections.
Ultimately, we learn to love Him by reflecting on how He
loves us. He has shown us kindness, revealing that true love is inherently
kind. His unwavering faithfulness teaches us that love is faithful through
trials and tribulations, steadfast and reliable. He has been sacrificial in His
love, demonstrating that authentic love requires sacrificial selflessness and
generosity. He invites us to embody those same qualities in our relationships
with others.
In verse five, there is a significant repetitive refrain
that resonates deeply: “I admonish you, O maidens of Jerusalem, by the gazelles
and by the young does of the open fields: ‘Do not awaken or arouse love until
it pleases!’” The maidens of Jerusalem, often referred to as the Daughters of
Jerusalem, were likely young virgins, characterized by their radiant, fair skin
and arising from affluent families. They were captivated by the wisdom and
grandeur of Solomon, eagerly yearning to unravel the mysteries surrounding His
persona and teachings.
Embarking on the journey of understanding and loving Him is
essential. It is a profound desire of mine to not only love Him wholeheartedly
but also to delve into the depths of His nature and work. The vow made to these
maidens—drawing parallels to “the gazelles and young roes of the field”—creates
vivid imagery of these elegant, swift-footed creatures, symbols of purity and
grace. These beautiful animals serve as types and shadows of our Lord Jesus,
connecting Him to the natural world and illustrating the profound beauty of
divine love.
One particularly striking aspect of deer is their absence of
a gall bladder, which symbolizes an existence free from bitterness and
resentment. Jesus exemplifies this purity, embodying a heart devoid
of gall or bitterness. We, too, are called to embrace this emotional
and spiritual clarity, ensuring that no root of resentment can take hold within
us, capable of defiling us.
The gentle admonition not to rouse Him highlights the
sacredness of love; we are urged to approach this precious gift with reverence
and humility. This love is not to be trifled with or impulsively stirred; it is
a delicate bond that should unfold in its own time. For new believers, that
intense closeness may not be immediately accessible; instead, it develops
gradually through deliberate investiture in a relationship with Jesus—a journey
enriched by His abiding presence within us and His Word nurturing our hearts
with vibrant hope in His divine promises.
The experience of being in Christ is nothing short of
extraordinary, enveloping us in a sweetness and palpable joy that defies
description. If you yearn for such intimacy but have yet to
experience it, I urge you to practice patience. Resist the temptation to rush
the process; instead, await His perfect timing, when He gently reveals that
“it’s time.”
When that moment finally arrives, immerse yourself in the
richness of God’s Word, cultivate a spirit of heartfelt prayer, and engage
actively within your faith community. It is through this steadfast
commitment—guided by His divine love unfolding at His appointed
hour—that He will awaken love within you, stirring your heart with a tender
assurance and showering you with a sweetness that transcends all understanding
and expectation.
Stephen Barnett
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